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Looking for love in the wrong places
- City: Cape Town
- Province: Western Cape
- Country: South Africa
- Listed: July 16, 2020 8:11 am
- Expires: This ad has expired
Description
I’m a 32 year old measurement scientist.
For the younger part of my adulthood I have had a few relationships, albeit I tried my best, I kind of always gave too much until it was an expected demand.
More give than take that eventually leads to the relationship not coping.
So I’m not here looking for love in the wrong place, and by that I don’t mean the site. Not seeking a relationship where a person needs help, besides filling a crevasse of the lonely emotion, that is my only intent and only wish the same in return.
I’m doing quite alright career wise, not much worries, other than the daily grind. My sanity is still good. Looks… well that would be for your to judge. Everyone has their type after all and I’m not there to criticize preferences.
So I have my own preferences too….
Ideally I’d like to match with someone who also pays attention to their career, albeit it doesn’t mean you need to be a doctor who is aiming to specialize in surgery… just be career conscious.
Someone who loves love, in a decent way. I don’t mean the pair must face the world. Us against them, no…
I believe one’s partner should still have friends and hobbies and I cannot possibly take away what is fun for them and something they are accustomed to for the majority of their life. I believe in trust, albeit not blind.
I’m strictly monogamous and a one for one kind of person.
Also a very nerdy person, person a little bit of a handsome nerd, I guess.
I like my High Fantasy like Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones and Harry Potter.
I also like philosophy and study many things. You’d most likely deal with a Ravenclaw, and a Merry (Hobbit) who would fight for his friends.
Also a very realist person who sees things for what they are, and tend to fact check things. lol
So… why this site and not Tinder or OkCupid?
Well… I used to moderate Okcupid and found that more jocks and bimbos started to join, taking the really awesome introverted dating equation out of the mainstream. Tinder just became a hookup joint where if your opening line does not entirely resonate with the individual, you’re forfeit as a possibility.
I’d like to connect with someone who can resonate with what I have written here.
A little “get to know me session” and not just a quirky pick up line googled and then pasted on a profile.
Please, tell me more about why this ad spoke to you, and a bit about your history as to how you found this ad, why you replied…. let’s talk.
And of course… as introverted as I am, as you maybe are… we both found this awfully odd site, so I guess we aren’t afraid of the “other” side of the internet or thoughts, even though some people are still conservative. Like me.
What happens in the bed is private and limited to that person it is shared with, but boy… may we wreak havoc then. lol
Disclosure: I’m not easy and neither should you be.
Get into my pants through my head, then my heart. Not the other way around. lol
May we exchange some good banters,
Kind regards,
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