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Married discreet daytime bud
- City: Cape Town
- Province: Western Cape
- Country: South Africa
- Listed: January 10, 2025 7:07 pm
- Expires: 99 days, 19 hours
Description
Put on your reading glasses, this will probably be long.
I know exactly what I am looking for. I haven’t found it yet, but I know it exists.
Basics about me. I am a white man in his late 40s in a sexless marriage. This ad is to find a male of a certain type, in order to occupy certain gaps for each other which we both may have.
Ideally (but not a prerequisite), you are a married man in a sexless marriage, or a divorced man with unmet needs. I am not looking for someone who has multiple concurrent partners. Some measure of mutual focus would be welcome.
Ideally, you are in the 40-70 age range. And ideally, you can host.
Absolute requirements:
You are not a drug user
You are not an axe murderer
You are not looking for money or other forms of compensation
You are a white male (no offense, just a preference)
You are masculine and not feminine (no offense, just a preference)
You are intelligent and mature
You are open to friendship and connection, even if it has to be a secret friendship only we are privy to.
Preferences, but not cast in stone:
You are average build, or stocky build, or former rugby player build (so not obese and not skinny and not Rambo)
You are hairy on the body and the face
What’s on the cards:
Regular meet ups. Regular as in once every week or 2, as both our schedules allow.
Meets are always discreet, this is non negotiable.
Has to be weekdays during working hours.
We will get naked together. We will explore each other sexually in a trusted 1 on 1 setting. We are open to build up to a level of intimacy which includes body exploration, kissing, wanking, fellatio, rimming, and prostate stimulation. This won’t happen all at once necessarily, but will build over time. Dependant on mutual attraction, chemistry and respect, of course.
This arrangement will be NSA. You have your home life and I have mine. Our thing will never intrude on our home lives. But NSA with somes strings which enable mutual trust.
We should actually like each other, and fulfill something for each other. So more than just a base sexual relationship based on cumming and going.
If the description matches you broadly, and you are realising you have similar needs in your life, I’d love to hear from you.
The rest, we will take as it comes.
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