- City: Cape Town
- Province: Western Cape
- Country: South Africa
- Listed: November 4, 2019 6:21 am
- Expires: 139 days, 13 hours
I’m not quite sure how to start this. I have no real expectations of receiving any decent responses from this but here goes anyway.
I am curious about the Sugar Daddy/sugar baby dynamic. The financial part plays a role but there is some fantasy to it as well. I’m not quite sure how much of it can translate to real life, but maybe there is a man out there who is wondering the same thing.
The stats you’ll be asking for:
32 years old
Employed with a well-rounded life
Average build (I think. I dunno. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder anyway).
In some alternate universe there is an older man who seeks a mutually beneficial relationship with a younger woman. He understands that this woman isn’t bought and appreciates the idea that when they spend time together it is because she wants to be there, with him. On the other side of this coin both these people very strongly uphold the principles of discretion. Neither of them are seeking to cause harm in any way. It is simply a moment where they can both step outside of the norms of daily life and enter their own little world for a short while. She has no interest in talking about his life. He has no interest to cross the boundaries to try and enter hers. What they share remains in their little bubble and does not follow them back to real life.
-I’m not looking for love but insist on respect.
-Mutual attraction and chemistry are way up at the top of the list.
-At the very top of that list is safety and the need to build trust.
-Never have I imagined I’d post anything like this. So once off encounters are not on my radar of possiblities to consider. I am looking to explore this with someone on a longer term basis.
-I’m not an escourt. There is nothing wrong with flashing your green in exchange for sex. That is not what I’m looking for though.
-You will have to be okay with spending some time so we can know get to know each other. You might worry about being scammed but I have my physical safety to consider. I’m sure it goes without saying, but we will meet at some point to make sure the chemistry is there and that the other is who they claimed to be.
-I’m not situated in Cape Town but like the idea of this playing off in the city. Part of the minor details that can be discussed at a later stage.
I think the simplest way to describe what I see in my head is meeting someone who has in interest in my person and finding myself wanting to reciprocate that interest. Someone to live out a fantasy with. Someone who I want to please and who wants to do the same in return.