Bossy assertive mistress for mature sub male

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I'm here to find or be found by you to continue my almost years journey in the BDSM lifestyle and life.

The highlights
I'm a multifaceted dom. Mental dominance is my forte, taking the time to learn what inspires your mind. Doing so your body will obediently follow. I'm also a Mommy Dom (but only if you seek that), skilled sadist (but only if you are a masochist), spanker, rigger , alpha woman, polite and a VERY HAPPY woman. I have a forever youthful mindset and a sexual libido to match. Please understand that the lifestyle is not a sexual kink for me, I'm just stating that underneath the umbrella of domination is my high sex drive.

The basics
Living the lifestyle is who I am, sharing my expertise with males who seek that is what I do. Predicated on how we connect you will encounter a myriad of activities that I do in this tremendous BDSM lifestyle. You will experience various levels of what the BDSM lifestyle has to offer and (in no particular order) protocols, rules, expectations, accountabilities, discipline, encouragement, motivation, punishment, structure, and goals.

My success in the lifestyle
I believe it's based on me learning everything about you. Then properly designing and implementing the best path for us that we can ascertain and live. Doing so to ensure fulfillment, and an overall healthy and happy dynamic. The benefit I offer is involing you in the lifestyle at a deep level, with you knowing you are not my starter sub. View me as YOUR life coach, but in the world of BDSM. Yes, anyone can say what I said, the DIFFERENCE with me is I'VE LIVED IT IN REAL LIFE and I'm tougher to me than I ever will be to you. I'm very focused and driven and have for almost two decades. This is not wishful thinking or hopes and dreams, it IS MY LIFE. To say what a previous business partner said to me as a young entrepreneur, to be with the big dogs, you NEED to be a big dog also. Most just talk like a big dog, I live it. The fine line of cockiness and confidence. You say this, wow an alpha female who is an accomplished MISTRESS or who the f*** does she think she is...to both I say thank you! Those who understand me will, and together we will grow and enjoy this.
From my youth to now I'm constantly searching for better ways, methods, and tools to enhance my skills .Im not perfect, I strive to be the best possible i can be in all my activities. I do that for myself and you.

Main and indepth profile (some redundancy)
I'm dominant female with almost two decades of experience. The lifestyle is NOT A FANTASY FOR ME, nor some casual kinky sex game. It IS my life. What that means to you is, I know what I'm talking about, from real life experiences and not lies, dreams, theory or wishful thinking. Please embrace my knowledge and experiences and allow me to share. To fully dominate someone, you must also offer yourself and take care of their needs.I will always lead, and show you I appreciate everything that you offer, yet will still be in total control. I will be constantly learning about you. Being a dom does not make me a rude, overly assertive, alpha idiot. It does make me a woman in charge of my life however and if we mesh, yours also to various degrees, predicated on your involvement in the lifestyle. I live a seamless life between the vanilla world which we all must live in and the BDSM world that I have crafted for myself and those who have chosen to be in my life. If you need a take charge dominant female who is always in control and command of herself first, then others (who seek and need that), we need to talk and meet.

Depending on why we connect, some or all of this info will pertain to you. Though I will interact with most, this profile is addressed to those who are looking for LTR and not just kinky sex or casual BDSM. However I enjoy males at any level in the lifestyle. So even if you are not interested in the lifestyle at my level, I do activities at any level.

Your level of experience is not important to me (many new people contact me, to inquire or see how their interests in the lifestyle work in their life), your PASSION IS. A basic (non fantasy or theory) understanding of the lifestyle is a MUST if you want to continue with me. Just be sincere and authentic and no need to lie about your past bdsm life. I will take you from there and develop you into what your dreams are made of, as I have others. I'm seeking a male who has a need to be deeply in the lifestyle (but as mentioned, lower levels of the lifestyle can occur). I will progress with you as you understand more about yourself and how it pertains to the lifestyle. If you think that means you will be carelessly abused and my doormat, you are wrong. You will not only be managed by me, but also cared for and always feel wanted. Again, as mentioned, I do expect you to have a need of what it is like to be completely involved in BDSM, in real life (as much as possible, yet living and functioning in the vanilla world) not the fa