Handsome swinging black guy looking for open minded or curious woman

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I am a single corporate black guy. I based in Sandton and working in Midrand. I don't drink or smoke. I don't drive either. Use uber and Gautrain to travel to work.I am into the swinging lifestyle. I am looking for a corporate woman who is keen or curious about the swinging lifestyle. Before anything we will meet and greet see if there is chemistry. Also when we do meet there is no obligation or pressure to do anything -if you don't feel me you don't feel me. We will part ways. I am also not desperate. Once we kind of moving forward we will Establish boundaries - what one can do or cannot do. When it comes to me I am very open and honest - I like this meet and fuck stuff. Its liberating. I like the wild stuff. I am not into porn, I would rather watch people fuck - smell the sex. I like the idea of being in the same room with a lot of people fucking. I love watching as much as I love being watched. I like watching myself in the mirror. My ideal woman would be someone who does not mind this kind of setup or curious(I will corrupt you) where we meet other single people, play, and swapping with your consent. We must first be fuck buddies and take it from there. We must enjoy each others company that way otherwise there is no point. I am a social runner and a gym guy so bodically I look ok. I have the energy as well .I am not tarzan but I just keep fit.I am very fair in that you will not be an extra in this movie ours, you will be a starring as well. You will be able to pick and choose what you want and must happen. I am able to watch you climb another guy as much as you can watch a lady climbing me - its a fair game. I want you to have as much fun as me. Then when we are together we can laugh about it. As much as we are raw dogging each other I want us to be friends. Do things friends do. There is a guy who likes other guys in my complex - single women are attracted to him - he is a magnet for single women- I am jealous - I will not lie- they come chill, drink with him until the wee hours of the morning - they even cook for him. I wish it was me with these group of girls - just drink and laughing and say naughty things. I want us to be able to sit and have a proper conversation. Engage each other about personal stuff. I am caring. We are not animals. I have a fetish for married women and women kissing - I don't know why. I have been in the lifestyle for a long time as a single guy its very tough, couples hate us even at the swingers club we are being punished to pay higher entrance fees so yeah. Before reaching out you must have really have had a deep conversation with yourself of what you are putting yourself into that you are throwing yourself in the den to be eaten by a lion or lions. Unlike a animal lion I am all about Consent, Consent and more consent. Also you are a big girl, you must wear your big girl panties. I do go to some swingers club, but the people who go there are not real swingers - Couple welcome, privacy - nxa - its a game if you fuck my woman I must fuck yours - narcissistic men -nxa. You go to a club with you woman and sleep with your woman there , then go home- what was he point of you going there??- narcissistic men -nxa. Oh yes I love muffing, and if you don't like muffing eish I don't know ke but I will see. I am also not intending to meet couples - I have been traumatized. If you run and a gym girl will be a bonus we can be running buddies or gym buddies - yes top runner. One thing I have realized I can go as saying % of women have dildos and vibrators at home. And one of the ladies I am friends with she showed me her vibrator and a dildo - I was so heart broken. I wanted to drop that vibrator. In my head I was saying a real dick is sitting with you and after leaving you will be busy being fucked by objects. She even told me she uses them ever night. Anyway I have digressed a lot. Reach out ladies and we have some fun. Or we can just be friends friends - besties. I like a bit of laugh, I like stand up and some sitcoms. So yeah ladies I will be waiting patiently. I have patience in abundance like a crocodile.